The Secret to Killer Confidence: Level 1 - Facing your Fears

Apr 01, 2022
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Facing your fears can be scary AF. 

Like borderline terrifying. 

Even so, it’s necessary to face them in order to reach the level of confidence that we all dream about. You must acknowledge your worth and then overpower the fears that come with itespecially when it comes to your style. 

When it comes to leveling up your style - especially when you’re trying a new look - there are fears that start to come up :

  • The fear of being rejected.
  • The fear of losing friends because they don’t approve of your new look.
  • The fear of being judged.
  • The fear of feeling like a fraud and everyone realizing it.
  • The fear of seeming like “you’re doing too much.”

The fears are endless - but so are your successes. Don’t worry about if someone thinks “you’re doing too much” because maybe they aren’t doing enough. So what if people judge you - they’re always going to find something about you to judge because they have their own insecurities. So what if you’re rejected or you lose friends - those “friends” were only meant to be a part of your life for a season - their time is up.

I feared rejection. And it’s funny because my fear became my reality as I was rejected constantly throughout high school. Why? Because my style didn’t fit the typical popular white girl. I always wore colorful outfits and paired together interesting pieces. I stood out, was constantly talked about, and I never fit in - no matter how hard I tried. This carried on throughout college.

I could’ve let the fear of me never fitting in and constantly being rejected lead the trajectory of my entire life - but I didn’t. I faced my fears and found freedom. I accepted the fact that I’d never fit in because I loved being too much of myself: too confident, too loud, and too unapologetic.

You can always push past your fears and move forward - you just have to face them first. And that’s exactly what you’ll do by downloading my free guide that I have my clients go through in my program, Stylish Badass

You’ll go through 8 questions that will uncover your past and your fears of pursuing your dream style. It ends with a challenge — because action will get you where you wanna be. 

So what are you waiting for? Get your guide boo! It’s time to take a step towards being that Stylish Badass I know you are. 

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